![]() ![]() What is your favorite childhood memory?Īnything related to childhood is bound to open up from wellsprings of information! Our childhoods essentially shaped who we are, and those memories are with us for the long haul, both good and bad. This is a great question to show who he is … who is his true self and how does he tap into that person? 12. What activities make you feel most like yourself? Some of us just suck at things, and it can be fun to bond over them, and laugh about it! 11. This is just a fun, lighthearted question. What’s one thing you have never been good at? How would you describe yourself in three words?ĭoes this question make him a little bashful, or is he more than willing to share? Does he reveal positives, or are his answers self-deprecating? How we see ourselves can also be a reflection of how we’d like to be seen, so pay attention to this answer.ġ0. Does he fall into a pit of despair when things go wrong, or is he able to see the silver lining? 8. You’ll also learn if he’s an optimist or pessimist, and this tells you how he navigates the world. Do you believe everything happens for a reason?ĭoes he believe in destiny or think life is a series of random events? This thought-provoking question will reveal a lot about how he processes the things that happen to him, and will also show what his outlook is in general. What is he willing to wait for and work for? 6. What is always worth the wait?ĭelayed gratification is a sign of emotional maturity. No matter what, it will tell you a lot about them. A person’s favorite quote can be a line that keeps them motivated, something that inspires them, something that reminds them that everything will be OK. Our minds filter through so much information every single day and hold onto a small selection of relevant, important pieces. What a person remembers and holds onto can tell you a ton about them. ![]() What is your favorite quote or expression? This is a great question to know what his dream girl looks like, and see how closely you stack up! Granted, no man expects to find a movie character in real life, and if he does then he’s seriously deluded, but it will be interesting to learn what his “ideal woman” would be like. If you could choose one movie character to marry, who would it be? Is he a hedonist who would live a life of pleasure? Or an activist who would pursue change? Or something in the middle? 4. This question will show you what he really values in life. Our lives would look totally different, and we would be totally different. Where we live, where we go, what we wear, what we eat … all of these things are governed by how much money we have. We try to choose a job we’ll like, but not working just isn’t an option. We need to work to pay the bills and we don’t really have a choice. Most of us are confined by our lives to a certain extent. If you inherited a billion dollars, what would you do with your life? So enjoy the list, jot down your favorites, and have fun going through them with a guy you like.ģ. For the remainder, I just listed everything out.Īll of these questions will open the gates to a deeper connection and bond, something so many people struggle with in this day and age. I gave a little bit of explanation for the first 50 questions, just to show you why they are such good questions to ask and what they will reveal about a person. MORE: 20 Questions to Ask a Guy to Get CloserĪnd with that, here is my ultimate list of questions to ask a guy to bond, connect, and just have a laugh! Some are silly and lighthearted, others are deep and serious and will really force him to step out from behind the mask and share his true self… and that is what creates a connection and real intimacy. It’s to see them as a blank pice of paper and see how they fill in the blanks. The best approach is to go in without an image of them, and without wanting to seem a certain way in their eyes. You can’t just be, instead you try to be what you think the other person wants. Most people don’t take this approach and that’s why dating can feel so stressful and overwhelming. Conversations aren’t meant to impress another person, but to discover them. Early on when I started dating my husband, we had a “questions” date night and it really brought us closer and helped us discover things about each other, and ourselves.Īnd this is something important to keep in mind about conversations in general. And talking about the same old things can get tedious.Ī little while back I started keeping a list of cool and interesting questions to ask a guy in an attempt to avoid awkward silences and generic conversation. I don’t know about you, but nothing is more painful to me (in a not physical pain sort of way) than awkward silences, especially on a date. ![]()
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